Sex dolls have evolved and revealed much about how people view closeness and relationships, reflecting a significant cultural influence. Their history began with sailors long ago, who crafted dolls from cloth and leather to ease loneliness. Today, advanced designs use silicone and TPE to create a more lifelike appearance.
Did you know a 2016 German survey found that 9% of men and 2% of women reported using a sex doll?
Media, art, and movies frequently explore the cultural influence of sex dolls, highlighting how they impact society by addressing deep emotional and social needs.
Key Takeaways
Sex dolls have been around for a long time. They started as simple cloth dolls made by sailors. Now, they are advanced and look real. They use silicone and AI technology. Many people still feel shame and keep sex dolls a secret. But media and online groups help people understand and accept them more. Today, sex dolls are used for more than just sex. They can give company, emotional support, and be used in art. Technology and online shopping make sex dolls easier to get. People can also change them to fit what they want. This helps more people find the right doll for them. People in different countries think about sex dolls in different ways. Laws, religion, and traditions affect these views. People still talk about ethics and feminism. These talks will shape what happens with sex dolls in the future.
Origins
Early History
Sex dolls have been around for a very long time. People have always wanted ways to feel close to others. In ancient Greece, Italy, and India, people made statues and figures that meant a lot to them. Some statues were important in Indian traditions like ‘Murti Pratishtha.’ These statues sometimes had spiritual or romantic meanings. Greek and Italian cities built temples with statues that drew many visitors. Some of these statues were linked to stories about love.
Historians say that making lifelike figures for company is not a new idea. The table below lists some key events in the early history of sex dolls:
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Time Period / Date |
Description |
Source / Evidence |
|---|---|---|
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Sailors made cloth dolls called 'dame de voyage' or 'dama de viaje' for long trips. |
Stories from sailors, books from the 1880s |
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1855 |
Rubber sex dolls were shown in a French newspaper at a big fair. |
Le Figaro, 1855 |
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Early 1900s |
French companies sold rubber sex dolls to sailors. |
Old ads from the early 1900s |
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1908 |
Iwan Bloch wrote about rubber sex dolls with moving parts in Paris. |
The Sexual Life of Our Time (1908) |
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1918 |
Oskar Kokoschka, an artist, ordered a life-sized doll of Alma Mahler. |
Art records, 1918 |
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1930s |
Hans Bellmer made detailed sex puppets that changed how dolls looked. |
Surrealist art history |
The first sex dolls sold in stores were in France in the late 1800s. These dolls were made from rubber or latex and called ‘rubber women’ in catalogs. Most early dolls were made for men. This shows how people thought about gender back then.
Sailors and Isolation
Sailors on long trips often felt very lonely. Many stories say sailors made simple dolls from cloth or leather to help them feel less alone. These dolls were called ‘dame de voyage.’ They helped sailors deal with being away from home. Some historians think these stories are true, but there is not much proof that these dolls were common before the 1800s.
Old myths and religious statues sometimes acted as early friends.
Most of these dolls were female, showing the power roles of that time.
Some stories say soldiers used sex dolls during wars to feel better, but many of these stories are not proven.
Cities grew bigger in the 1800s, and new materials made sex dolls easier to get. As technology got better, the dolls looked more real. This change from old stories to real objects shows that people have always tried to find ways to feel less lonely or apart from others.
Taboos
Stigma
Sex dolls have a bad reputation in many places. People often think they are weird or embarrassing. This comes from different reasons. Some people believe sex dolls lead to wrong actions. Others think only lonely or different people use them. Erving Goffman, a well-known sociologist, called this a “tribal” kind of stigma. The way sex dolls look and how they are used can make people uneasy. These feelings make it tough for sex dolls to be accepted.
Studies show stigma hurts both people who use and make sex dolls. Many owners do not want to say they have one. They worry others will judge them. This fear keeps sex dolls from being popular. But things are changing a little. Sex dolls are now sold in more stores and shown at big events. This means people are slowly starting to accept them.
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Statistic/Aspect |
Data/Value |
|---|---|
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Participants in study |
83 |
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Percentage identifying sex as aspect |
77% |
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Percentage selecting sex exclusively |
14% |
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Percentage referring to doll as 'lover' |
44% |
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Percentage referring to doll as 'companion' |
43% |
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Percentage selecting 'prostitute' (purely sexual term) |
4% |
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Percentage attracted by 'realism' |
76% |
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Percentage attracted by 'companionship' |
44% |
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Percentage attracted by 'sexual performance' |
24% |
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Majority demographics |
Heterosexual, white, employed, middle-aged males |
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Relationship status |
Just over half not in a current relationship |
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Living situation |
Approximately half lived alone |
Many people still do not want to buy or talk about sex dolls because of these taboos. Laws and high prices also show how people feel about them.
Secrecy
People keep sex dolls a secret. Many owners hide their dolls from family and friends. They are afraid of being judged or made fun of. This makes it hard for people to talk or get help. Some users make private online groups to share in secret.
Stigma causes secrecy, so sex dolls stay hidden.
People use fake names or private accounts in online groups.
Makers of sex dolls sometimes hide their jobs or use secret words in ads.
Some people now talk more openly about sex dolls. They want to change how others see them. But keeping secrets is still common. This shows that taboos are still strong, even as things slowly change.
Media & Pop Culture
Film and TV
Movies and television shows have played a big role in changing how people see sex dolls. Some films show sex dolls in a new light. For example, the US film “Lars and the Real Girl” (2007) tells the story of a man who lives with a sex doll. The movie shows his relationship as caring and healing. This makes viewers think about sex dolls in a more understanding way. The BBC documentary “Guys and Dolls” (2007) also looks at men who live with sex dolls. It explores their lives and identities, showing that their choices are more complex than many people think. These stories help humanize sex doll owners and challenge old ideas. They add to the cultural influence of sex dolls by making their stories more visible and accepted.
When film and TV show sex dolls in a thoughtful way, they help people talk about them more openly.
Online Communities
Online forums and groups have become important spaces for people who own or want to learn about sex dolls. These communities allow people to share their experiences and feelings. A large study looked at about 80,000 posts from the world’s biggest sex doll forum over 14 years. The study found that people talk about many reasons for owning sex dolls, not just for sex. Some owners look for friendship or even use dolls for art. Many users give their dolls names and personalities. They form emotional bonds and treat the dolls like real companions. These online spaces show how cultural influence changes over time.
Owners discuss companionship and artistic expression.
Forum members create stories and identities for their dolls.
The data shows that people’s views about sex dolls are growing and changing.
Researchers say more studies are needed to track how these attitudes shift. Still, online communities already show that people see sex dolls in many different ways.
Technology
Design Advances
Sex dolls look very different now because of new technology. Makers use silicone blends and TPE to make soft, real-feeling skin. These materials help dolls look and feel more human. 3D scanning and printing help make detailed faces and bodies. Each doll can look special or match what a buyer wants. Engineers made the dolls move better with new skeletons and joints. Dolls can pose in ways that look natural. Some dolls move their heads and hands. Artificial intelligence lets some dolls talk and know voices. They can show simple faces and react to touch or sound. Virtual reality lets people use dolls in digital worlds. This makes the experience feel even more real.
These new designs help sex dolls seem more real and fun to use.
Accessibility
It is easier for people to buy sex dolls now. Online stores give many choices and let people shop in private. Buyers can pick body type, hair color, and even personality. This helps the dolls fit what different people want.
The table below shows how it is easier to get sex dolls now:
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Evidence Aspect |
Supporting Data / Description |
|---|---|
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Sales Growth |
Sex doll sales went up by 75% in 2020, reaching $2.4 billion during the COVID-19 pandemic. |
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Online Market Accessibility |
Many online stores let people shop and get delivery in secret. |
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Consumer Interest |
There are about 130,000 Google searches each month in the US and 387,000 worldwide for "sex doll" words. |
|
Market Size & Growth |
The market was worth $3 billion in 2023 and could reach $10 billion by 2030. |
|
Customization Options |
Buyers can pick body type, hair, eye color, and personality. |
|
Technological Innovation |
AI and robotics make dolls more interesting and help the market grow. |
Easier shopping and new features make sex dolls more liked and accepted in many places.
Social Attitudes
Sexuality
Sex dolls have changed how people think about sexuality. In the past, people thought sexual pleasure was private or even wrong. Now, more people talk about different ways to be close. Studies show sex dolls and other technology challenge old ideas. These studies help people see that sex is not just for men and women together. Sex dolls can help people accept new ways to feel happy and have relationships.
Kenneth R. Hanson studied men in sex doll groups. Many men give their dolls names and personalities. This shows how people think about gender and being a man. Some worry this keeps old ideas alive. Others think sex dolls help people learn about their feelings and who they are. Sex dolls are becoming more important as people accept new ideas about sexuality.
Sex dolls are not only for physical pleasure. They help people think about themselves and what they want in relationships.
Autonomy
People talk about autonomy when they talk about sex dolls. Autonomy means having control over your own choices. Studies show users see sex dolls as more than just things. Some call them “artificially intelligent partners” or “erobots.” Others use the word “allodoll” to show dolls can have many roles.
Researchers find users feel close to their dolls.
Some see dolls as partners. Others want comfort or friendship.
Studies say more research is needed because of stigma and privacy worries.
Some users have strong ideas about gender and power. This changes how they see autonomy with dolls. Talking about autonomy shows sex dolls are part of bigger questions. These questions are about who we are, rules in society, and what is right or wrong. As technology grows, people will find new ways to use sex dolls and talk about them.
Cultural Influence
Emotional Roles
Sex dolls can help people with their feelings. Some people use them for comfort or to feel less lonely. Others think of them as friends or partners. About half of users say they feel close to their dolls. Many give their dolls names and treat them like real people. This means sex dolls can meet needs that other things might not.
More people are getting interested in sex dolls and robots. Public curiosity grew from 9% in 2013 to about 30% in 2020. Both men and women are interested, but men try them more. Up to half of men and 40% of women would try a sex robot. Older adults, people with disabilities, and those who lost partners often want sex dolls for company and closeness. Their reasons are not just about being lonely. Many want to try new things or find new ways to connect.
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Aspect |
Statistic / Finding |
|---|---|
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Public interest increase |
From 9% in 2013 to 20-30% in 2020 indicating growing acceptance and curiosity about sex robots. |
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Gender interest disparity |
Up to 50% of men and 30-40% of women express interest or willingness to try sex robots. |
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Actual usage |
Less than 1% of the population has used a sexbot; about 10% of users are women. |
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Older adults' motivations |
Older, disabled, or those who lost partners consider sex robots for companionship and intimacy. |
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Motivations beyond loneliness |
Sexual exploration, fantasy enactment, and companionship are key drivers, not just loneliness. |
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Personality influence |
Interest correlates more with sexual openness (erotophilia) than with attitudes toward technology. |
Sex dolls also make people think differently about closeness. Some users like dolls more than human partners. They say they feel less stress and more control with dolls. Many users feel happier and healthier after getting a doll. Dolls can be friends, help with sexual needs, or inspire art. These uses show how sex dolls change ideas about relationships and feelings.
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Aspect |
Numerical Evidence |
Description |
|---|---|---|
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Emotional attachment |
About 50% of users view dolls as partners |
Emotional bonds reported, with some users preferring dolls over human partners |
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Functional roles |
Dolls serve as sexual satisfaction, companionship, artistic inspiration, and masturbation aids |
Demonstrates multifaceted emotional and psychological roles |
|
Mental health impact |
Users report improved mental health and life satisfaction |
Indicates positive societal and psychological influence |
Note: Some people feel more accepted and less lonely after getting a sex doll. Others say that laws or shame can cause stress and bad feelings.
Identity
Sex dolls also affect how people see themselves and others. Most owners are white, straight, middle-aged men. But more women and people from different backgrounds are showing interest. Some women use sex dolls to learn about their own desires. This shows that cultural influence changes over time and for different groups.
Many things shape identity, like family, media, and culture. People learn about gender and sexuality when they are young. Sex dolls can help some people figure out who they are. Some users make up stories or personalities for their dolls. They may use dolls to try out new gender roles or to feel safe exploring who they are.
Studies show that gender identity is not simple and can change. Society and culture help shape how people see themselves. Some people feel they must follow old gender rules. Others use sex dolls to break away from these rules. Media and online groups also change how people think about owning dolls and about identity.
Many users say having a sex doll helps them understand their feelings and what they want. Some people feel more sure or comfortable with who they are.
People often think sex dolls are only for certain groups, but this is changing. Intersectionality says that race, gender, and culture all mix to shape identity. People in more than one minority group may have extra problems. They might use sex dolls to deal with unfair treatment or to feel accepted. Social constructionism says ideas about gender and sexuality come from culture, not just nature. This means that the way sex dolls affect culture will keep changing as society changes.
Global Perspectives
Regional Reactions
People around the world think about sex dolls in different ways. In some places, people can buy sex dolls easily and talk about them. In other places, people hide their interest because of strict rules or strong beliefs. Japan has a big market for sex dolls. Many people in Japan see them as part of everyday life. Some companies in Japan make dolls that look like famous people or anime characters.
In the United States and some parts of Europe, people talk more openly about sex dolls. Stores sell many kinds, and some people collect them for fun. In Germany and the Netherlands, some hotels let guests rent sex dolls. These countries treat sex dolls like normal things you can buy.
Some countries have very strict laws. In Saudi Arabia and India, people are not allowed to buy or own sex dolls. Police can take them away if they find them. In South Korea and China, people feel both good and bad about sex dolls. Some want to buy them, but others think they are not okay.
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Country/Region |
Attitude Toward Sex Dolls |
Legal Status |
|---|---|---|
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Japan |
Open, creative |
Legal |
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United States |
Growing acceptance |
Legal |
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Germany/Netherlands |
Normalized in some areas |
Legal |
|
Saudi Arabia |
Strongly negative |
Illegal |
|
India |
Negative |
Illegal |
|
China/South Korea |
Mixed |
Legal but restricted |
What people think depends on local laws, culture, and what they see in the news or on TV.
Religion and Tradition
Religion and tradition affect how people feel about sex dolls. Many religions have rules about sex and relationships. For example, Christianity, Islam, and Judaism often say sex should only happen in marriage. These religions may think sex dolls are wrong or shameful.
In some places, old traditions tell people what to do. Families may want people to get married and have kids. Using a sex doll may not fit these ideas. In India and the Middle East, strong family rules and religious beliefs make sex dolls rare.
Some people use sex dolls in secret, even if their religion or culture says not to. They might feel bad or scared about being caught. Others try to change old rules. They say sex dolls can help people who feel lonely or have trouble finding a partner.
Note: Religion and tradition can make it hard for people to talk about or use sex dolls, but some people still find ways to meet their needs.
Controversies
Ethics
Sex dolls bring up many hard questions about right and wrong. Some people are worried about dolls that look like children. Experts argue if these dolls are dangerous or if they might stop crimes. Some think these dolls could make bad actions seem okay. Others believe they might keep people from hurting real kids. Many countries have made laws to ban child-like sex dolls. Police sometimes find these dolls with other illegal things.
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Aspect |
Evidence Summary |
Source/Reference |
|---|---|---|
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Academic Views |
Experts argue a lot about child-like dolls. Some say they could cause harm by making abuse seem normal. Others think they might protect kids. |
Harper et al. (2022), Danaher (2017), Chatterjee (2020) |
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Legal Actions |
New laws ban child-like dolls. People caught often have other illegal things too. |
Prostasia Foundation (2021), Harper et al. (2022) |
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Psychological Profiles |
Owners show less sexual aggression but feel more entitled and see others as objects. Many owners are single or divorced. |
Harper et al. (2022), Journal of Sex Research (2022) |
|
Lack of Data |
There is not much proof about the risks or good things. |
Brown & Shelling (2019), Cox-George & Bewley (2018) |
Some experts use three ideas to talk about this:
Dolls as a safe way to let out feelings
Dolls as a danger that could make abuse seem normal
Dolls as something for personal use
No one agrees on which idea is right. Most experts say we need more studies.
Feminism
Feminists do not all agree about sex dolls. Some think sex dolls hurt women’s rights. They say dolls can make people see women as things, not real people. Studies show owners often see others as objects. This makes some people worry about fairness for women.
Other feminists think sex dolls might help some people feel stronger. They say dolls could give people a safe way to learn about their feelings. Some women use sex dolls for their own happiness or to understand themselves.
The argument about sex dolls and feminism is not easy. People talk about if dolls are good or bad for society. Many agree we need to talk more and do better research.
|
Psychological Trait |
Sex Doll Owners |
Non-Owners |
|---|---|---|
|
Sexual Aggression |
Lower |
Higher |
|
Sexual Entitlement |
Higher |
Lower |
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Objectification |
Higher |
Lower |
Laws and rules about sex dolls are different in each country. Some places ban certain dolls. Other places allow them but watch closely. The debate goes on as new ideas and technology change things.
The story of sex dolls shows how culture changes. Many things help this change happen:
Young people who like technology help make sex dolls popular.
AI and smart features help sex dolls seem more real and cool.
There are now more choices for all genders and couples.
Some people still judge sex dolls, and laws can make it hard to get them.
Experts think the market will almost double by 2033 as people become more open and technology gets better.
Will people in the future think sex dolls are normal friends, or will they still argue about them?
FAQ
What materials do modern sex dolls use?
Manufacturers often use silicone or thermoplastic elastomer (TPE) for modern sex dolls. These materials feel soft and realistic. They also help the dolls last longer and look more lifelike.
Are sex dolls legal everywhere?
Laws about sex dolls change from country to country. Some places allow them, while others ban certain types. People should always check local laws before buying or using a sex doll.
Who usually buys sex dolls?
Most buyers are adult men, but more women and couples have started to show interest. People from many backgrounds buy sex dolls for different reasons, such as companionship or sexual exploration.
Can sex dolls help with loneliness?
Some people use sex dolls to feel less lonely. Studies show that owners sometimes form emotional bonds with their dolls. These bonds can help improve mood and provide comfort.
How do people care for sex dolls?
Owners clean sex dolls with mild soap and water. They store dolls in a cool, dry place. Regular care helps keep the dolls in good condition and makes them last longer.
